I posted this on the expert board, but also wanted to see if anyone else has gotten similar advice after a failed IVF. Here's my story...
I just learned last week that my first (and maybe only) IVF failed. It was such a smooth cycle that my RE and I are shocked that it did not work.
My husband and I are 32 and have been pregnant twice before. We got pg naturally with the first, but had an early loss (around 10 weeks). We tried four rounds of clomid with no luck and then got pregnant with twin girls, after our first cycle of gonal-f/B2B IUI. Unfortunately we lost them at 18 weeks due to an infection. It has been a tough road, so to now be faced with a failed IVF, we are beginning to lose hope (and money).
The IVF cycle resulted in retrieval of 21 eggs, in which 17 fertilized naturally. By day three, I was told that they all looked "too pretty" so they wanted to wait until day 5 so that they could pick the highest quality blasts. On day 5, I had 15 still going strong and we decided to put back two above average blasts. I started to worry when I got a call the next day and learned that none of the remaining 13 met their freeze requirements, BUT still tried to remain positive.
Sooo, I am just not sure where to go from here. My doctor says that it's possible that the two blasts they picked may have had some chromosomal abnormalities, otherwise he's just not sure what could have gone wrong. I just hate not having an answer... I was surprised though when he said that b/c we now know that fertilization is not a problem and blast quality is not an issue AND because I have been pregnant before that we could actually take a step back and try just doing injects/IUI again. Unfortunately, IVF has wiped us out financially so even this won't be an option for awhile.
So, I guess all my rambling boils down to this question... does it really make sense to try a less aggressive protocol after a failed IVF cycle? This just seems so weird to me...
Thanks in advance for any advice/insight you may have!
I just learned last week that my first (and maybe only) IVF failed. It was such a smooth cycle that my RE and I are shocked that it did not work.
My husband and I are 32 and have been pregnant twice before. We got pg naturally with the first, but had an early loss (around 10 weeks). We tried four rounds of clomid with no luck and then got pregnant with twin girls, after our first cycle of gonal-f/B2B IUI. Unfortunately we lost them at 18 weeks due to an infection. It has been a tough road, so to now be faced with a failed IVF, we are beginning to lose hope (and money).
The IVF cycle resulted in retrieval of 21 eggs, in which 17 fertilized naturally. By day three, I was told that they all looked "too pretty" so they wanted to wait until day 5 so that they could pick the highest quality blasts. On day 5, I had 15 still going strong and we decided to put back two above average blasts. I started to worry when I got a call the next day and learned that none of the remaining 13 met their freeze requirements, BUT still tried to remain positive.
Sooo, I am just not sure where to go from here. My doctor says that it's possible that the two blasts they picked may have had some chromosomal abnormalities, otherwise he's just not sure what could have gone wrong. I just hate not having an answer... I was surprised though when he said that b/c we now know that fertilization is not a problem and blast quality is not an issue AND because I have been pregnant before that we could actually take a step back and try just doing injects/IUI again. Unfortunately, IVF has wiped us out financially so even this won't be an option for awhile.
So, I guess all my rambling boils down to this question... does it really make sense to try a less aggressive protocol after a failed IVF cycle? This just seems so weird to me...

Thanks in advance for any advice/insight you may have!
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