Welcome to the new IVF Waiting Room

[inciidadmin]

Come on in and make yourself at home.

[Ada]

Trying to cope after a miscarriage!

Hello My name is Rose

I am new to INCIID. I am recovering from a miscarriage a week ago today. I have really supportive family, friends, and partner. I am feeling discouraged about having children in the future due to 2 tubal pregnancies. I don't have insurance coverage to pay for IVF but my GYN doctor feels I am a good candidate. After browsing the internet I came across INCIID, which I think is a great supportive network and charitable organization for couples and individuals trying to conceive. We love children and hope to have some of our own some day. I have never joined a support group or chat room so I hope this is a pleasant journey.
Peace and Love
Rose

[SoniaO]

Rose-
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. INCIID is a AWESOME place for support. There is always SOMEONE that knows exactly what you are going through & can help you through it. I just know that you will find support from those that know exactly the loss that you are feeling if you go over to the Grief & Loss board-
http://www.inciid.org/forum/forumdisplay.php?f=24
It doesn't look like anyone has posted over on the new format board yet, but if you do, there will sure to be replies.

Again, I'm sorry to hear of your loss.

Sonia

Hello My name is Rose

I am new to INCIID. I am recovering from a miscarriage a week ago today. I have really supportive family, friends, and partner. I am feeling discouraged about having children in the future due to 2 tubal pregnancies. I don't have insurance coverage to pay for IVF but my GYN doctor feels I am a good candidate. After browsing the internet I came across INCIID, which I think is a great supportive network and charitable organization for couples and individuals trying to conceive. We love children and hope to have some of our own some day. I have never joined a support group or chat room so I hope this is a pleasant journey.
Peace and Love
Rose

[Ada]

Thanks you
Rose

[babieswanted]

Hello Rose, I am sorry to hear about your loss. I also suffered from a tubal (ectopic) pregnancy two years ago. I know how hard it can be cope with the loss. I wish you luck on your journey with INCIID. I am a new member as well, and also hoping to become an IVF canidate.
Best of wishes
Babieswanted

[Ada]

How are you doing?

Hey Babieswanted
Just curious as to where you are in your journey?

[babieswanted]

Just beginning

Hello Ada,
I hope you and your family had a great New Years! As far as my journey, we are just at the beginning stages. My hubby & I got chosen as a scholarship recipiant for INCIID,so we will begin the fund raising portion shortly. I actually received my 1st donation yesterday...and I must say it was very generous! How far are you in your journey? I look forward to hearing back you

Babieswanted

[Ada]

Good to hear from you!

I just started fundraising as well. I had a few small donations and some promises to send next week. I think this is a good time for people to be generous with income taxes.

Also had Sono and HSG last week. Have to f/u with IVF doctor on Feb 4th for results.
I hope you had a wonderful New Years too and I wish you luck mommy to be!

[babieswanted]

Thanks!

Thanks Ada...you have to excuse me because I don't know what all the acronymns mean...what is f/u? I'm guessing furture ultra sound?

babieswanted

[Ada]

I wish i knew all the acronyms in this forum too. lol.
F/U means follow up. Sorry.

[Angela72]

IVF is the next step

Come on in and make yourself at home.

We are getting ready to do IVF if we dont get prego on IUI in the next few months. Many of us have no health insurance coverage. Is there anyone lobbying for our state??

[TheresaN]

I've been lurking around on INCIIDs website, but just registered today. I had an ectopic pregnancy over 2 years ago, and haven't been able to conceive since. I tear up everytime I think about it. My husband always tells me how staying busy doesn't help...that I need to deal with it. You think I would have done so by now. After trying for almost 2 years to have a baby, my GYN suggested I see a fertility specialist seeing that at the time I was 36. I went through so many tests. My tubes are blocked, my eggs are depleating at a rapid rate, and the only option my husband and I have is IVF. It's been a long sad journey, and although it's sad for all of us, it feel good to have people who can relate to what I am going through.

[Ada]

Hey Nooner

Welcome to INCIID!
Like many of us on here who suffered ectopic pregnancies and miscarriages of any sort, it is just unbearable. I had two ectopic pregnancies, my first in 2000 and my last Sept 2008, which cost me both fallopian tubes. Like ya husband said, we all have to deal with how we feel. I cried about it for days and weeks, not just for the miscarriage but also because I had to accept the fact that I am infertile. When I prayed on it and opened up my heart to the fact that I need help (like the help of INCIID, family, and friends) I was able to let go to most of the pain. Please open ya heart to INCIID and lean on us for help and support. We are here for each other. Although I have only been on here since Sept, I come here for comfort and to give hope and support to others. but it might just be the social worker in ME

So where do you live (what state)?
Have you seen fertility specialist???

[babieswanted]

Welcome & Hello

Hello Nooner,
Hopefully, we can be a support to each other. I suffered an ectopic pregnancy 2 1/2 years ago which caused me to lose one of my tubes, and after seven months of trying to get pregnant I went to see a fertility specialist, and that's when I found out that my only tube I had was cut...as in shorten....that's an even longer and depressing story...Needless to say, that is when I was guided to use this web site...and by doing so, along prayer it has given me hope. I hope you will find the same and more while you are on your Journey with INCIID!

How are you Ada....How is everything coming along with your fund raiser?

Babieswanted

[Ada]

Hey Babieswanted

I am doing well. Fundraiser is over. Started Jan. 9th and met goal on March 10th.
I have surgery on Thursday to remove my tube due to toxic fluid. Doctor feels it will make IVF more successful. I will be off work for 5 days recovering.

How are you doing anything new??? I hope all is well.